Advice on dating- I need some help here!
Long story (kind of short)- I was talking as friends to a guy my boyfriend knew in the past, let’s call him Bradley, Bradley and I had a completely innocent friendship. He dated my ex-boyfriends ex-girlfriend, and was now dating someone else. I’m dating the love of my life. After C (my boyfriend) found out about this friendship, not like I was hiding it, he started talking to a female whom I’ve never talked to, but he recently bought a piece of art from. Well this girl, has completely gotten my boyfriend in rounds of conversation that I haven’t even gotten out of him. He lets me read their messages if I ask, which I don’t do often, but he talks to her almost like he used to talk to me, before him and I started dating. He seems so interested in her. Well tonight, he left his phone open and on the bed, and I checked his Snapchat and she revealed things in a paragraph starting with “I’ve never ever told anyone this before”, and I don’t know why, but that really breaks my heart. Now don’t get on me for looking through his phone, because we have an “open phone” policy. He can check mine whenever he wants and I can check his whenever I want. But tell me, am I being irrational for having these feelings about this girl? I don’t hate her, but I feel like she has some sort of agenda here. And I don’t like it.